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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

12.06.2025 02:11

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

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But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

She found it foreign!.

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She died at 55 of colon cancer.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

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Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

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The only rule us 5 kids had .

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

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He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

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I write beautiful poetry .

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

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I know ,a lot about trauma.

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

One cannot live in the past .

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We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

I couldn’t, believe it.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

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BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

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Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

I have no regrets .

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

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Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

(And it was in our own minds.)

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

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I was very sick at this time too.

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

I waited trembling.

Was to survive, this bastard.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

I was seconnd youngest,

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

I think the readers, may guess!

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

I had hoped to write a book about this .

This is how, and why children get BPD.

What did i know ?

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

But it wasn’t much.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

Who then, do I blame.?

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

Im dying but, im not bitter.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

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I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

This is soul school!.

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

She wouldn,t have been !

I will be 64.

Im still living with it.

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

He resisted the act ,that day.

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

My mum and dad in the seventies!

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

So whats the point in blame.

My family never makes their pension either.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

They are buried together, in the same grave..

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

I was 9 years of age.

I was scared of men, in general

All the time i was locked up.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

But ive been too sick for many years..

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

Why did i forgive my father ?

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

Would this be the day?

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

So, i spoilt her more .

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On the 31st of Jan this month .

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

She loved him until the end.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

Ive learnt so much.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

She married twice! .

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

We all went to grammer schools

It was going to be , some day.

Comes on , in middle age.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

He knew the spot.

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

But, we were locked up after school.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

Put me off passion for life!!

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

And who doesn’t know suffering?

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

I could never make a relationship work though!

When she asked me how she looked .

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

I said to her

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

I never cut or harmed myself..

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

She was in good health!

My life is so biszare .

Especially a lifetime of it.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

We were not on the streets..

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

I don,t even have a pension.

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

And i lived it daily.

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

As i do to all so called friends.?

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.